Probably the funniest thing I've ever encountered. And you should know how many funny things I've come across.
It makes you and it breaks you. For one instant you believe you could be anything you wanted to be. That you could do anything, achieve anything. Dreams come true, anything is possible if you just believe, yada yada. And in the very next (yeah, that was a long instant) you doubt everything you knew you were, even.
You fight over the most monstrous issues, you pull hair, yell, promise revenge and then get over it and your bond is stronger than ever. And just when you think you've somehow done something right in your life to have gotten this lucky, you fight over the most trivial of matters and let go.
It's the oddest feeling in the world, not feeling. It's kinda nice too. Blank mind and infinite possibilities, you should try it.
cheater-cock...getting inspired from my posts :P
yeah...its quite unnerving to not feel anything for a while and then everything gets alright.
Friendship is a purely social concept where 2 people believe it may benefit each other.... Its nice to believe in fairytale concept of friendship but i lost my faith in it a long time ago... When you fall not even your brother/sister will be there to catch you if he knows hez/shez never goin to get repaid.. Friendship is a lie just as civilisation is a lie...
Yours darlky in the light
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how true..
u r right..
PS: massiah. I couldn't resist writing this for u....i guess u had a few bad experiences.. wid friendz.. so u feel this way.. even i have had a few very very bad experiences... but that's not the end of the world...i have a few very good friends...i might not be in touch wid them regularly.. bu their are 1 or 2 who have really inspired me.. stood by me at my difficul times... given me lectures, wen i did stupid things.. houted at me... n faught wid me .. but that doesn't mean that friendship is a lie.. friendship is the most wonderful gift GOD can give u..only thing is maybe u ahven't found that true friend.. i just wish n hope u find that friend one day...
@ SG.. ur blog reminded me of one of my THE BEST friend whom i ahve not written to since ages n i think now i'll write a mail to her..
all the best
cheers!
oh god this word verification thing is again troubling me... hhaa
does this happen wid me only!! GOSH!!
@ Nav: Not really, and yeah some. This has been lying in my drafts for a while.
@ Dark: I've had my share of bad experiences. Some, really bad. Some very complicated. Sometimes I wonder if it's worth all the effort- but then when I see that I have the most wonderful people in the world in my life too, I figure it'll be ok.
It's ok to let things be, it's another to give up completely. Give yourself a chance.
@ Ira: I'm glad my post made you think of your friend, and I hope you've already e-mailed her/him. I've given up on e-mails, I still stick to hand written letters. Call my old fashioned, but I like that way better.
Thanks for dropping by you guys,
All my love.
been there, done that.
friendship is a burden.
i prefer being alone.
but i do love two or three of them.
enough said.
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You misunderstand me.. Its not only the bad experiences.. Its pure logic. People hate to think of themselves as the villian.. But each and every1 of us is a selfish selfcentered person. If you do something selfless its because you want to feel good about yourself. I don't deny i've had bad experiences but i've had good experiences too.. I had friends who've literally saved my life.. But the concept of friendship that we like to believe in is a lie. Its purely a social concept when you break down society and humanity into wat it really is.. induviduals... I dont know.. Maybe I'm just crazy.. Maybe the concept of true friendship is a reality... But as far as i have seen in my rather short life its a lie and i'm open minded enough to change my mind if i see differently.. As far as im concenred im a selfish coldhearted self centered ass and am not worth keeping as a friend unless you get something from me..
yours darkly in the light
Dear SG,
yaa u r right abt hand written letters, they give ua eprsonal touch.. but u c emails are faster n my friend is in States.. n shifting houses i had lost touch wid her.. u c its thro' emails that we are always in touch... u don't need residential addresses.. so i find emails keep u in touch,... yaaa i id write to her..
tahnx
Love n cheers!
ira
@ T N: It's more of a responisibility. 'Glad you love one or two of them, that's all you'll ever need.
@ Dark: It probably starts in the social context, but then it becomes more, if it is true friendship. Selfish, we are- but in this case, I think it's ok.
As for the selfless act thing- no act ever is. But as long as it does good to others too, it's good.
@ Ira: I guess that's one situation where e-mails are a blessing.
Thanks for dropping by you guys,
All my love.
what is this ? the season to let go?
I hate feeling guilty for not safeguarding relationships dear to me even when i couldnt have done anything to save them..
sigh..
P.S. - I'm in chennai to collect certs. Soon to be in manipal!! isnt that cool? ;P