There's times when it does feel real. When knowing that I'm never going to see them again makes my soul scream, literally. But most of the time, I'm just, just. Ugh.
This friend of mine lost her mom, watched her die, doesn't have a dad already and now it's just her and her sister. I've spent two days with her.
I CANNOT even begin to imagine what they're going through. I refuse to, maybe. But I cannot. I just can't.
i don't think anyone 'can' understand... we can only attempt to provide support.
may the one who dwells in the heavens give her strength and courage.
Thanks. I guess.
Read the post below, that one's better.
sigh.
sg.
fuck. i'm so sorry. it's like trying to live though little parts of yourself are irretrievably gone, parts of yourself that have died.
and yeah, you can only try to be around, for every phone call, for every time they wake up and just need someone to be there.
Thanks.
I was blank, literally, for a whole two days.
Sigh.
SG.
It's a void that will never fill. Be strong. There's someone up there who will take good care of them. I hope He does. I know He will. I hope you overcome the loss soon.
i'm so sorry! there's nothing anyone can say or even do. But as irritating as it seems to say it now, they'll get by. Friends will just have to be around. Things will sort themselves out
Hugs!
I heard about it too - it still hasn't registered though, that something so horrible actually happened. Its something that can never be set right.. i just hope friends and family help them through it.
you know what,its never the same. You can try providing support right now, but there's something you might not see. It changes ppl, their faith, sometimes you stop believing in something that was the very basis of your existence.