It saddens me in a way, that I don't have the capacity to just blow off my top, and yell. Say hurtful things, just cuz the other person s said them too. To make them feel bad. Hurt them, maybe more than what they did to me. I just keep quite. I know it's all anger talking, and when they cool down, things will become clear. And then we can sort it out.
Sorting out is k, it's forgetting what the other person's said that is difficult. You may forgive a person, but what of the words that linger at the back of your head? And from then on, no matter what your fighting about, they pop up.
What I don't understand is why people, knowing how dangerous words can be, don't actually take care before they use them? I've seen people do extreme things just because they heard that someone might have said something. Might have, mind you. So, you can imagine how even more extreme things might happen, when they DO say it, and say it on your face.
It's funny... that even after all the care that I take, I end up doing the explaining for why I said something and what I really meant when I said it, and that I'm sawwy if you took it in the wrong way. I bloddy take the initiative and do it, even when the person on the other side of the fence has said more than enough to last me a few lifetimes has never once bothered. It's pathetic really. The way I am, I mean.
Get lost. Two words. I think there was even a movie, where an older brother tells his sibling to "just get lost", and the kid really does. Or was it a book? Either way, that was enough to stop me from ever using those words. That's all it really takes, for me. And it's pathetic, once again. Ain't it?
These days people use it all the time. Empty phrases, just to... I dunno just to what, but they just say it. I don't even know why the say them, if they don't mean them. It's beyond my comprehension. So, if someone has some insight, it'd be of great help.
Yours forever sthupitly.
P.S: No I'm not depressed, and neither was I trying to drive you over the edge, I was just thinking. And HAD to write.
well I guess its because only people who know the worth of words can appreciate what is said and what isn't.
so cheer up, sthupit girl(i hope i spelt that correct) coz you don't make a good despair column writer, i'd rather be reading your posts on hope than commenting on something sad.
lol. it kinda gets to you at times. but i'll be back to normal sooner or later.
thanks for stopping by.
yours forever sthupitly.
:).. nice one.. there is a proverb somewhere.... a stone thrown.. an arrow shot and a word spoken can never be taken back.. its unfair.. coz sometimes the mouth is faster than the brain.. sometimes its better to just keep silent.
it better be sooner...else....ummm...else.....oh ya...else i'll start calling you preeti :P
It's good someone understand worth of words, if others too start understanding life will be much easier. People tend to use harsh words which leave deep impact on listener's mind which appoligies cannot mend afterwards
~preeti
@vishal: ze. it is. but not everyone knows that.
@nav: well that's consoling. When you write sad stuff it's ok, when anyone else does, it's ok, when i do, its not, eh?
@preeti: Wo no. I'm not all that perfect. But I have my moments. Thanks.
@BS: cliches? where? what?how? :)
and you DO NOt/WILL NOT call me anything that's only four letters, unless your swearing of course, so there.
thanks for continuing to drop by.. lol.. lotsaluv,
yours forever sthupitly.