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" By three methods we may learn wisdom: First, by reflection, which is noblest; Second, by imitation, which is easiest; and third by experience, which is the bitterest."

Quosten.

The other day, I don't remember why exactly though, was a general enough conversation- it struck me, and over whelmed me. It, being realization. About? Love. Marriage. Happily ever after. Forever.

I dunno if it's just me or if it's just me, I felt this sudden fear engulf me. You know that sensation you're supposed to get of a heavy boulder settling down in your stomach? It happened! Well at least, something these books talk about is true.

If I see the stuff that's happening around me, there's a pretchy good chance that others see it too, right? Atleast 10% of the "people other than me"? So, then how do they manage to center their whole existence, literaly in some cases in fact, around one single person? One emotion. One thread. How?!! These, by the by, are most often people who take hours to decide what they're going wear!

Jokes aside, seriously, how!!! Most boy-friends, love- of- my- life s , etcetra etcetra s that I've met or seen either dominate the other person- so much so that they cut themselves off from their friends and become totally dependent on the other person, or treat the other person like shit. And by shit, I mean shit.

True there is no "perfect person". But how much imperfection do you settle for? Actually, that isn't even the point- the point is how can you trust someone so much with yourself, that you give the person everything you have- mind, body and soul? Everything.

Right. You tell me how. I've forgotten everything else I wanted to say- just answer the question, someone, please!

Lv.

P.S: Four more papers to go. 'Am so damn bogged down, I think my sleep time is bordering 4-5 hours or something. Anyway, like they say "I will survive". Blah. Hope alls well!
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  1. Navneet on Wed Apr 25, 01:41:00 PM GMT+5:30

    there never is a 'perfect person' but sometimes you do meet someone who's all that you could've asked for...mostly though it's people simply deluding themselves and more often it's the peer pressure kinda stuff.

    how do you trust a person with everything?? well that's a risk, but it's better if you've weighed stuff before taking that risk rather than going in with plain desperation.

    i dunno how people become so dependent on a single person for all their needs, i sure wished that they didn't but you can teach them all can you?

    all the best for your exams, mine get over tmrw but have entrances after that...so no respite...and yeah we manage to survive after all the shit that's piled on, so don't worry about it.
    take care

     
  2. Ira Bedi on Wed Apr 25, 03:15:00 PM GMT+5:30

    I think sometimes.. u meet a person u like to depend on or trust... I don't even know y and how one does this... and usually the eye opener is wen that trust breaks and one realises that all that the other guy (it maybe a boy or a girl)had to say was all a pot full of shit.. playing wid ur centiments in sucha manner that its beyond anything.. !! So i think one shuld trust the other person but not be blinded .. keep ur eyes open.... i mean don't just blindly trust a person...
    In this world maybe no one is totally perfect.. and one should no go for a 100% perfect match... but never trust blindly.. keep ur eyes open all the time... maybe the one whose telling u all the time that he loves u actually is just playing wid ur emotions.. and doesn't care a dam.. and wen ur eyes open u realise its too late and u r totally heart broken...

    so u r busy wid examinations..but my suggestion would be sleep longer not just 4 to 5 hrs.. u need all the rest and sleep be4 any exam... I am sure u'll do well
    all the best.. do well!
    Cheers!
    Love

     
  3. Shrikant Joshi on Thu Apr 26, 02:06:00 AM GMT+5:30

    Perfect someone, eh?

    Nope, after ** years of my existence, I am sure they don't exist.

    There are just compatible people. They are people who don't mind the fact that you call them up at 2 AM in the night for a sutta break. They are people who call you at 2 AM in the morning for a sutta break. And you don't think that's wrong/odd/stupid/waste/your word goes here.

    And that is exactly what giving the mind, body and soul feels like. You can be there for someone, simply because you know they'll do the same.

    And no, they are never your soul-mates in the derogatory life-partner sense of the word.

    They are just there. Like the tree that stands inside your compound walls... (Bad analogy, good thought.)

    And no, it doesn't have to the opposite sex all the time. I am lucky to have two such people in my life.

    Yeah, I am a lucky b*****d :D

    Cheers!
    Shri.

     
  4. Eva on Fri Apr 27, 12:14:00 AM GMT+5:30

    Hey, it's me again. No, I didn't change anything.. Maybe you can give me your blog's html? Where did you get it? Maybe there was a mistake where I downloaded it.
    I tried to get contact with the girl, who made this template, but she didn't answer to me.
    So.. :)
    Seeya soon!

     
  5. Eva on Fri Apr 27, 06:21:00 PM GMT+5:30

    NO, it didn't help, everything is the same. I don't know what to do!:(

     
  6. Eva on Sat Apr 28, 06:41:00 PM GMT+5:30

    eva3200@hot.ee

     
  7. Ry on Sat Apr 28, 09:03:00 PM GMT+5:30

    Experience says love does not exist. If it does its a waste of time. No point answering that question. U cant trust any1. Id rather taste cyanide

    ...

     
  8. Sthupit Girl on Sat Apr 28, 09:05:00 PM GMT+5:30

    @all- Uh- huh. I'm hearing you, I'm not sure if I'm agreeing with you.

    Distracted.

    All my love.

     
  9. Dark Messiah on Sun Apr 29, 08:23:00 PM GMT+5:30

    Hmmmmmmmmm.........
    I know....
    Im with u on this 1 sthupid!

    Yours

    p.s. word is "hrmdoble"

     
  10. Sthupit Girl on Sun Apr 29, 11:12:00 PM GMT+5:30

    You're suppose to answer this one mistar, not agree or disagree.


    Men, sigh!


    SG.

     
  11. Abhishek on Wed May 02, 03:39:00 PM GMT+5:30

    Question: Why give everything anyway? Relationships are sharing.Not donating,are they? :)

    ( P.S. Limited Experience speaking.Please disregard stupidity )

    Cheerz ;)

     
  12. Dark Messiah on Thu May 03, 10:07:00 AM GMT+5:30

    wat i ment is that i agree with u disagreeing with wat every1 said..

    /swt

     
  13. Sthupit Girl on Sun May 06, 12:40:00 PM GMT+5:30

    @a: Like i said, I hear you, I'm just not sure if I'm with you. And that did make sense, rest assured.

    @dark: Aah. Now there's something.

    Thanks for dropping in!

    All my love.

     


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