You know, people do such crazy stuff to first get into a relationship, then so much crazy stuff when they are in it, and then more crazy stuff when they're out of it. No wonder, this world is a crazy place. But seriously, even though, it was just a passing thought I had, I think it's chrue.
You're going to find yourself travelling around the world in the span of time it takes you to reach the last word on this page, considering you read all of it, so fasten your seat belts and get lots of tissue. Oh cry you will. In agony.
You mustave gotten one of those five forwards that've been over the internet since it was born.. those 26 things a perfect guy would do, what girls like, what guys like... blah blah blah.. you get what I mean. The funny thing is, they are chrue to alot of extent.
For example, when I say "k." It means, get the fuck out of here before I hit you for hurting me. When I say "sure, that's okay" it means I hate what your doing to me, but then, I shouldn't have expected otherwise.
The thing is, when someone else says it, it might mean something else, because they are a person in their own rights. And instead of asking your friends what the hell something means, you should ask the person. That's the problem when you start paying too much attention to the "stereotypes" that exist. And exist they do. Personally, I'd hate to be on the receiving end of "candy and flowers", when the flowers are red roses. I hate them. It's too common.
I mean sure, if they were my favorite flowers, and that would happen only if the guy had bothered enough to find out, or actually listen to our converstaions. That's when the make some difference to me. When they mean something.
The same goes for, hearing and listening and talking. Some very very wise person once said, don't marry a person you can't sit with through a 6 hour flight. At the bery least. It takes alot to get me to talk, in person. And when I do, if the only thing I'm going to get in the end, is a view of your bery tasty back side walking out on me, I'd stop with a "k.".
There's alot of examples I can come up with... I hear and see people all around me. Been there and done that. So, I know.
Anyway point I was getting to, yes there was a point, is that it's more appreciated it if you're you. It's what I tell my sis, my friends, my family, everyone... be who you are, no matter whether your the girl or the guy. Don't pretend to like something when you don't, and even if you are doing something just so that you can make the other person smile, give it a fair shot... chances are that you'll end up enjoying it too.
I don't mean to sound cliche` and I don't mean to sound any more grandmotherly, than I am, but seriously... until you can love yourself, and not feel ashamed of your choices or your preferences or anything about your life, you can't love someone else. Be it a friend, a boy friend or anybody else.
Umm... that's about all that was on my mind. Ahem. Lol... will post soon. Lotsaluv and hugs,
Yours forever sthupitly.
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@bani: lol
@sthupit girl: can ya tell me what the under-emphasised point was?? kidn lost it mid way and can't go over reading it again.
anyway...people do get crazy all through...even when they aren't in or out :P (the world is a desparate place i tell you)
agreed.
especially the bit about "k" and "sure,thats ok".
think i use it all the time.
So, does that mean we keep getting hurt and the worst thing is that most people don't even know they're hurtin us?!?!
At least in my case,thats true.
You have people thinking "oh,she said its ok,so it must be fine.
No one actually bothers to read b/w the lines.
I guess they don't care enough huh.
aw..never mind!!!
lovely post.
oh n i have started a new blog.
inspired by yours.
cheers ,
Sona
oooooh..
Rythwin see things back to normal.. or things back to abnormal.. howeva u look at it..
Rythwin miss point. No get point of entry. Except Rythwin understand it full of nonsense.. Thats what was planned in the first place.
Rythwin got to go now. Rythwin still sick..
Grunt! Ogre! Grunt!
Rythwin (You think?!?)
@sis: bery bunny.
@ nav: *murderous look*
@sona: thankus and.. people read between the lines for things which are clear and forget to look where things are actually hidden.
inspired by mine? God help you my girl. God help you.
@Ry:
Sthupit Girl sees Ry saw George of the Jungle yesterday.
Sthupit bows down to Ry's choice.
Sthupit thinks Ry should know things here are full of nonsense.
Sthupit don't see why Ry is so shocked.
Sthupit is not well too.
sthupit wishes Ry the very very faster recovery.
thankus for bisiting guys.. lotsaluv and hugs!
yours forever sthupitly.
frankly i don't even see the reason for the murderous look...maybe i should act sick too :P
oh and i've never got those stupid forwards...or rather i MUST have deleted it after reading the subject line "must read".
you wait mistar,
your getting them from me. And if you actually sit and think about it... I'm not surprised. Geekoid that you are.
yours forever sthupitly.
atleast i don't invent words that don't actually mean anything (ref:geekoid)....buhahahahaha
i am actually loving this :P
barf.
you got the point na? then wht?
Yours forever sthupitly.