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" By three methods we may learn wisdom: First, by reflection, which is noblest; Second, by imitation, which is easiest; and third by experience, which is the bitterest."

is that a...??

Today has been a much needed "rest day". You know, the healthy kind? Hey! Everyone needs a break now and then. And I have so much coming up, I just had to take this small break before charging ahead :)

So, got up late. Read a book. One of those cute romantic ones. Munched on the goodies ma got with her from Delhi last night. You have got to go to Wenger's in Delhi and have their marshmellows, patties, tikkas, pasteries, toffees.. well EVERYTHING. Until you do that, you haven't lived. Sigh. It's all over now, though.

Got out of bed at 1:00ish to catch a movie. Watched Alot Like Love. Finally. It's too good. A must watch. And currently on the top on my most fav list. They play music by Greenday too. It's about... well, go watch it. I don't want to spoil it.

Today was great because my friends finally came to the realisation that being "cool" wasn't everything. I mean everyone is "cool" in their own ways. Dressing well and speaking in English don't make you cool, and others uncool. I hate the word, itself. Like there weren't enough standards one is willing to live up to just so that they can be accepted. Worst part is.. I thought people out grow this in High School. People should. It hurts enough people then.

That's what I told myself when I was half way through 9th grade. What was the point of trying to please a few people, who thought of themselves as popular? I mean, I have nothing to be ashamed of... If I believe in something, I do. I don't need you to tell me if its right or wrong or that I shouldn't believe in it. People still come up to me and tell me that there are these small things that I stand by. Don't give and inch for.

Looking down on people. That's one thing I just cannot take. I aint the Queen of England. So what gives me the right to look down this small nose of mine? Nothing. And you aren't the Queen either. So, you don't have the right to too.

And what's more is.. that it is too much of an effort. Too much trouble. Some people are cool because they can wear flowers in their hair to college, some are cool because they walk around barefoot, some are cool because they don't give a damn about all this and study... others because they don't know english and still make and effort to converse with me... Some because they are from villages and know what really matters in life, others because they live in the fast lane... But the coolest people are those who don't use the damn word!!

Plus, I've joined this orkut thing. It's kinda fun... well I had fun writing my profile. I have 2 kids, I smoke and drink, and I'm studying. I've piereced my navel and you can find everything in my room... evrything from screw drivers to dirty socks.. No condoms, though. My seniors at college, are going to scream scandal. hahahaha... :)

Also, I am back on track. As most of you can see. I'm blabbering. Talking hokum... for some reason I really like that word. Basically, it was another day well spent. Today I can stand in front of my mirror, at the end of the day and say... oh damn! Is that a pimple??
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18 comments

  1. Viewer on Tue Apr 04, 08:58:00 PM GMT+5:30

    Good to see being urself all chirpy. As far the thedefinition of being cool seriosuly doesnt mean with te way people dress up or if they are educated or can /cannot speak english.

    to me being cool is being urself they way u r and having no quirms abt it.

     
  2. Vishal 'Tommy' Thomas on Tue Apr 04, 09:21:00 PM GMT+5:30

    being cool?? its all being happy and fircely proud of wat u have and not wat u have to do to impress the ppl round u....

     
  3. AWY on Wed Apr 05, 07:07:00 AM GMT+5:30

    A lot of people are afraid that being themselves will be uncool.. and then they will be looked down upon..
    so, viewr i wud have to agree with you..
    being cool is being urself and having no qualmms abt it.

    Be cool !!!
    And don't worry about the word.. what will you do if you have to say -cold but not freezing cold- ?
    ;-)
    cheers.

     
  4. AWY on Wed Apr 05, 07:08:00 AM GMT+5:30

    oops.. so many typos..
    *viewer
    *qualms

     
  5. Aashirwad Viswanathan Anand on Wed Apr 05, 08:38:00 AM GMT+5:30

    I wish they'd realise that in high school...

     
  6. The Bhandari's on Wed Apr 05, 10:06:00 AM GMT+5:30

    :D cool....
    and your profile is orkut is super cool :P
    ~preeti

     
  7. Aditya Abburi on Wed Apr 05, 11:04:00 AM GMT+5:30

    be cool?? its been so cold here for the last 6 and a half months; i am sick and tired of cold/cool....time for me to be hawt!!!! :))

     
  8. Aditya Abburi on Wed Apr 05, 11:24:00 AM GMT+5:30

    heheh just saw ur profile on orkut....

    guess what i searched for...

    female, with children named preetika in india!!! and bingo just one result

     
  9. Anonymous on Wed Apr 05, 02:09:00 PM GMT+5:30

    great to see you back in your kickass style.
    i dunno whether i've seen that movie...whats the star cast?...oh and you are absolutely correct about the Wenger's thing...its almost heaven inside there with the aroma of coffee and the tikkas.
    have fun

     
  10. Anonymous on Wed Apr 05, 04:41:00 PM GMT+5:30

    perfect day i must say ;)

    i cant speak/write good inglesh .... thanks for sliping me into the cool category :D!!

     
  11. Sthupit Girl on Wed Apr 05, 04:54:00 PM GMT+5:30

    @viewer: yep, that's exactly what i mean to say too.

    @vishal: good one there too.

    @anna: long time no see here..

    @aash: yep. i wish they did. how are the hols going?

    @preeti: :) shukriya shukriya

    @aytida: hahaha.. that's what I told people when they told me drink and dope was COOl. I told them they'd end up in a morgue so cold that no one would be able to de-freeze them.

    @aytida(again): hahahha.. that's me. One and only. Unique. And thank God for that.. for the world is a better place.. can't imagine what would happen to it if there were more people like myself.

    @nav: sigh. it's a trip to heaven for me when somone goes to delhi.

    @anjan: your belcome. always. and if you visit here again, i meant to tell you i can't open you blog page. special treatment for me, ke is somethign wrong??

    Thanks for visitng guys... will write sometime this evening again... and if you have a yahoo id, lemme know, i'll send you that orkut invite thing.

    Lotsaluv and hugs,
    yours sthupitly forever and ever.

     
  12. Triya on Wed Apr 05, 06:10:00 PM GMT+5:30

    You've been busy, haven't you.. You got in the sobby post, the crazy post and the happy post since I last visited.. I've been kinda busy with collg, so haven't visited frequently, but I commented in all that I missed..

    And oh by the way, I replied to ur comments on my page, but ur not likely to check thr, so lemme tell u, don't think past life connection, think Cosmic Twins. I like that term :D

    Oh, and what book didya read? Are you a romance novel freak too?

     
  13. Triya on Wed Apr 05, 06:12:00 PM GMT+5:30

    This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.

     
  14. Triya on Wed Apr 05, 06:13:00 PM GMT+5:30

    Sry, posted the same comment twice..:-S

     
  15. Aashirwad Viswanathan Anand on Wed Apr 05, 06:22:00 PM GMT+5:30

    Hehe, hols are a healing period by convention...you cut yourself off (relatively) from the rest of the school-going population, maybe pack your bags and isolate yourself completely from them, especially those that love to make your life miserable, or just generate those negative vibes whenever they see you.

     
  16. Sujay Sukumar on Wed Apr 05, 10:01:00 PM GMT+5:30

    kewl!

    whose kewl? Never figured that out. I think there is a formula for being cool, I've always been the goofy types.

     
  17. Sthupit Girl on Wed Apr 05, 10:11:00 PM GMT+5:30

    @triyA: yeah.. now there's a cool name;) hahha... yeah, i just noticed. it's a full and proper pot pouri.

    @triya(again): its k.

    @aash: hahahha... isolation is good. sometimes. i can see the effect it is having on you though.

    @sujay: well, that's two of us then..

    thanks for visitng guys!

    Lotsaluv and hugs,
    yours sthupitly.

     
  18. Mustang on Fri Apr 07, 02:33:00 PM GMT+5:30

    well, i guess people realise things that uve mentioned as they mature day by day. unfortunately, that happens when its too late and they realise the value of life, friendship and love..
    its good to grow,even better to mature..
    have a great day and keep blogging..

    D

     


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